从缅甸的大风灾到中国四川的大地震，最近的新闻让人感到沉重，震惊甚至肝肠寸断。。
灾区受重创后的触目惊心，灾民被迫面对家园尽毁、家散人亡的悲痛欲绝，以及成千上万的尸体，到处哀鸿遍野的惨不忍睹。。一幕又一幕从网络、报章、电台所传来的灾难画面与消息，无不教人深深震撼、无不教人心酸难过。。一切就像在眼前发生一样，真实的叫人窒息。
一瞬间即天摇地动，山河变色。。面对大自然的灾害，人类是多么的渺小与无助。天灾所带来的毁灭虽然让人感到绝望，却也让人感到希望无所不在。从网络阅读了一篇又一篇关于四川地震的灾情故事，忍不住地掉下泪来。读到了从四面八方的民警、士兵不顾一切地赶到灾区给予的抢救。读到了许多伟大的父母与教师不惜牺牲自己，用血肉之躯顶住千斤重的瓦砾，以保护身下的孩子或学生。读到了各方各界，不分阶级、不分贵贱的人士第一时间所给予的捐助救济。。这一切都显现出人性至真至美的性情，让人动容。
在此为所有的灾民默哀。。凤凰浴火而重生，再难熬寒冷的夜晚终会过去，再大的乌云也遮不住一整片的蓝天与暖阳。愿他们早日走出悲痛，重拾心情，早日重建家园。。
2008年5月12日 星期一
Anger
Sunday, 11 May, and it's Mother's day. A rest day and a nice day.
Had a good sleep and woke up at around 12, then headed to The Curve to meet my friends there. Everything seemed nice until before i have my haircut. Three of us wanted to have a haircut and therefore we went to this saloon named Snxxx, which claimed themselves specializing in hairstyling and the pioneer in Malaysia's hairdressing industry when it comes to introducing hair trends. Okui had his haircut here last time and it was quite nice... so with some expectation and excitement, we stepped into this saloon.
The junior hair stylist was quite talkative, and to make my expectation even higher, she guaranteed me that I'll be good looking with the new hairstyle. However, I already felt something wrong during the half way, but i thought that's just the way the haircut should be and therefore i kept comforting myself, kept thinking that it'll be fine... and i thought giving opinion while the hair specialist is concentrating just doesn't seem to respect them.
And the results really surprised me and i gave her a astonished look. The hairstyle just didn't suit me and in fact it was quite terrible. I kept telling her that my left side there seemed a bit unbalance but she insisted that it is the shape of my head, nothing to do with her. I leaved the saloon with unsatisfied and angry face, and my friend Dennis suggested me to go back and complain to them, rather let the incident to spoil my mood for whole day long.
So i went back to the saloon and complained to them. I guess my gaze could kill anyone who has a eye contact with me and that girl didn't show up. The other hair stylist came to me and tried her best but there was nothing much she could do...
Once bitten, twice shy, I'll never go back to that saloon again after i had my terrible haircut there. But from this experience, I realized that may be i was a little bit overreacted. It is never easy to control your emotion especially dealing with anger. According to Charles Spielberger, PhD, a psychologist who specializes in the study of anger: Anger is "an emotional state that varies in intensity from mild irritation to intense fury and rage." And i think he is right, you can't get rid of, or avoid, the things or the people that enrage you, nor can you change them, but you can learn to control your reactions... Sounds pretty easy huh? But I guess there is still a long long way to go...
Had a good sleep and woke up at around 12, then headed to The Curve to meet my friends there. Everything seemed nice until before i have my haircut. Three of us wanted to have a haircut and therefore we went to this saloon named Snxxx, which claimed themselves specializing in hairstyling and the pioneer in Malaysia's hairdressing industry when it comes to introducing hair trends. Okui had his haircut here last time and it was quite nice... so with some expectation and excitement, we stepped into this saloon.
The junior hair stylist was quite talkative, and to make my expectation even higher, she guaranteed me that I'll be good looking with the new hairstyle. However, I already felt something wrong during the half way, but i thought that's just the way the haircut should be and therefore i kept comforting myself, kept thinking that it'll be fine... and i thought giving opinion while the hair specialist is concentrating just doesn't seem to respect them.
And the results really surprised me and i gave her a astonished look. The hairstyle just didn't suit me and in fact it was quite terrible. I kept telling her that my left side there seemed a bit unbalance but she insisted that it is the shape of my head, nothing to do with her. I leaved the saloon with unsatisfied and angry face, and my friend Dennis suggested me to go back and complain to them, rather let the incident to spoil my mood for whole day long.
So i went back to the saloon and complained to them. I guess my gaze could kill anyone who has a eye contact with me and that girl didn't show up. The other hair stylist came to me and tried her best but there was nothing much she could do...
Once bitten, twice shy, I'll never go back to that saloon again after i had my terrible haircut there. But from this experience, I realized that may be i was a little bit overreacted. It is never easy to control your emotion especially dealing with anger. According to Charles Spielberger, PhD, a psychologist who specializes in the study of anger: Anger is "an emotional state that varies in intensity from mild irritation to intense fury and rage." And i think he is right, you can't get rid of, or avoid, the things or the people that enrage you, nor can you change them, but you can learn to control your reactions... Sounds pretty easy huh? But I guess there is still a long long way to go...
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